Wow, not only did I catch up on my (very busy!!) Reading Page, but I even got my Dreamwidth inbox to zero. *smears thumb on screen* What's happening? No parenthesis after the 'inbox' link?!?!?!?! The last time it happened was at least 2023 based on how old the oldest "unread" message was in there... Oh yeah I apparently
made a post about this auspicious occasion back then too XD A lot of the older comments were fic recs, book recs, movie recs, music recs, that I'm FINALLY admitting to myself I'm unlikely to get into in the immediate future. I did add them to my Dreamwidth Memories! Which are like a graveyard of nice things. Sigh. I just never remember to go check for stuff there. Except once! Earlier this year. I knew I'd saved a link or two about writing descriptions.
Anyway, while catching up on a bazillion entries on my reading page (love the energy the pillowfolks are bringing :D joined like 5 new comms), I also ended up skimming through a lot of
yuletide exchange letters. And I find myself wondering how appropriate it is to comment under these, as in! This is a letter for the creator(s) who will make something for you during the exchange! Comments (well, anonymous if during the exchange period) asking for clarifications on the requests seem okay, but general conversation about the fandoms seems like it's not the right place? I'm thinking particularly in the context of Yuletide because I spotted a couple of letters that made me go "OMG YOU'VE READ THOSE BOOKS TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!" but well. Is an exchange letter the right place to start this conversation? I suppose for a bigger fandom it would feel different, like a letter definitely doesn't feel like the place to say "omg you like Captain America too" (but then again, maybe if the prompts are particularly sophisticated and cultured?! Haha). I said nothing in the end. Would you mind this kind of comments on your exchange letters, have you left or received them? Or praised cool prompts? Where would be better if not there? Sending a PM or waiting for the fandom to come up in some other entry? Keeping quiet forever but knowing in your soul you are kindred spirits?? XD